For the holidays this year, I was determined to remain unruffled. Thanksgiving came about as early as was possible, and I was responsible for only mashed potatoes and pumpkin pie. That was pretty easy!
Using the last week in November to marshal my ingenuity and perseverance to decide on the season’s gifts, I still felt that time was on my side. One quick e-trip through the events calendar of the Twin Cities, and I found the perfect experience: Black Nativity. Of course, Benny and Baxter wanted to attend. I could imagine them swinging to the gospel music and dance, definitely ruffling a few feathers. No monkey business this time, so they settled for hearing about Holidays Past.
When my now adult children were in their teens, I always found a cultural performance for us to participate in as a family. Usually, it was one-way reception: a play at the Guthrie, Lorie Line, a ballet, an orchestra concert or choral production. We always had a fabulous time. So in that tradition, the Black Nativity was no exception.
Continuing with Holidays Past, I began to remember some of my holiday strategies, like engaging the family in more “giving” experiences. One year we sang Christmas carols in a nursing home. Another year we put on a Christmas play, using Santa Bears. Many years, we cut our Christmas tree, decorating it with popcorn and cranberry chains. The Christmas of 1999 found family and friends visiting stations throughout our home to cut out paper snowflakes, decorate cookies, put a puzzle together, and create messages and special packages for our 2000, turn-of-the-century cylinder. I think I will resurrect that cylinder and lovingly recount its contents with everyone during December, 2009.
But, I digress. Yet, isn’t that what the holidays are all about? Taking some time to reminisce, tell favorite stories, and relax in the peace of family and friends. Yes, I have enough time to do what is needed, and I remain unfuffled, er, unruffled.
Long story, short: Focus on what is really important this season, and keep it in your heart year ‘round.
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